“When you feel gratitude, often you are looking at a difficulty that you have overcome, but there is still some of that “struggle” vibration present. The state of appreciation is seeing whatever you are looking at through the eyes of Source. . . You could walk down a crowded street with all kinds of things that a lot of other people would find reason to criticize or worry about, and you would not have access to them because your vibration of appreciation is picking out for you things of a different vibrational nature.” — Abraham [Excerpted from the book “Money and the Law of Attraction: Learning to Attract Health, Wealth & Happiness”]
So often it can be said about us “He/she does out of their way to buy trouble.” Our focus, then, only needs to be upon our very own selves and not anything else – especially when we are not asked to do it (family/employment matters, etc.). If we broaden our sphere of focus, we broaden the vibrational implications that we then are making our own. Monitor the process for a while and whenever also monitor how emotionally it makes you feel as different areas and levels of focus are brought aboard. Probably not all that great for most things. Once that is determined and caught, shift to something…anything…even something virtual that makes you feel better. You don’t need to go out of your way to “buy someone else’s trouble,” we usually do that pretty well for ourselves.